#1425: “I can’t comfort my partner and it’s killing me!”
Will we ever be free of #ThisFuckingGuy? Content note for emotional and verbal abuse and mentions of emotional exhaustion and wanting to die. Nothing like ideation or making a plan, just, it's overall...
View Article#1426: “My sister won’t shut up about the famous people she knows.”
I'm Nobody, who are you? Oh, you're Somebody? How very interesting. Sooooooo interesting. Fascinating, really.
View Article#1428: How do I convince my sister that I don’t want to be roommates?
Boundaries aren't built in the convincing stage, they're built out of actions.
View Article#1432: Q: “I know I want to leave, but how do I make sure that it’s the right...
The right time to leave a relationship that's making you unhappy is whenever it's right for you.
View Article#1433: “My husband says he regrets marrying me because of how much my...
#ThisFuckingGuy rides again. Content note for body policing and mentions of BMI and specific weights, which I would normally redact with prejudice but I am leaving in this time because they are...
View Article#1435: Friendship After Work
The art of making friends will come in handy again and again in this life.
View Article#1436: “Why Do Abusers Take Your Stuff?”
Abusers are so boringly alike. #ThisFuckingGuy rides again.
View Article#1437: “I’m afraid of losing myself if I focus too much on my relationship.”
This is a love story like Fleabag was a love story.
View ArticleIt Came From The Search Terms: Summer In The City
Search terms! Divorce haircuts, flirtation, awkward questions, how to let people down without trying to make it easy, and the single life.
View Article#1439: “I’ve observed some problems in my neighbors’ marriage. Should I sit...
Unreliable narrators are my kryptonite, and I'm only human.
View Article#1440: “Microaggressive grenades are blowing up my friend group. Are there...
Blessings and apologies to The Peacemakers, but I do not have a set of scripts you can use to get your friends to change their entire personalities.
View Article#1441: “I want to travel with my friends but I’m afraid my brain will ruin my...
Is it your brain or is it the company?
View Article#1447: “My stepmom just voted my rights away and I’m mad at my dad about it.”
My brain feels like a test pattern right now, so I do not promise you either eloquence or coherence. Fortunately this is a well-covered topic and the archives are robust.
View Article#1452: “Am I being unfair to a guy who told me he loved me on our third date?”
A Hallmark Movie where I descend like an angel and say, "I BRING YOU YEESH TIDINGS OF GREAT ICK. FLEE, FLEE, FLEE TO THE CITY AND LEAVE THIS MAN WHERE YOU FOUND HIM."
View Article#1453: “Is my ADHD ruining my relationship or am I just with the wrong person...
New year, same abuser playbook.
View Article#1454: “How long do I wait for a friend to get back to me about our...
Closure is a gift you give yourself, part infinity.
View Article#1455: “Single friend scorns the coupled. How can I have her meet my...
When friends tell you their good news, you have choices, like, not being a jerk about it.
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